When I met my Rockstar hubby 12 years ago, there were so many things that attracted me to him. One of the things that held the most allure for me was his desire for kiddos. He was an awesome uncle and his dreams for his own children made me all woozy.Somethings we imagine about marriage don't hold true. We often come to it with rose colored glasses that leave us feeling disillusioned and confused when we are able to see beyond them. I am no exception to sporting around my pink- tinged spectacles.
However, in the area of fatherhood, my husband did not disillusion me in any way. He is an amazing father. I know he struggles with his adequacy as a parent just as any of us do, so I wish I could express to him without written word how proud I am for his being a daddy to our kiddos. But this is how I do it best...and even then all my thoughts and feeling don't flow like they should.
Of course he is working today on his day of days. But he will have 4 smiling faces and squealing voices when he arrives home tonight to remind him that I am not the only person that thinks he's "the bomb" .
Thanks for being the dad you are. Thanks for being you.


1 comments:
Beautiful post and tribute!
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